There can be times we can be confused between the path one has chosen though it appears to be the real purpose upon its path you may uncover that there is something more which has to be discovered. It’s a situation, which would carry mixed emotions, for instance happiness of discovering ‘my Purpose’ and sadness of not finding IT the real thing. One will have moments of self-doubt and questions for example- is it a lifetime journey of discovering and still discovering. It may be a moment that the self-belief may take a setback.
The good news is that there is a way to handle it: be confident that it’s the right path. These kind of thoughts will pour in and its OK. It is imperative to consistently operate on the work in hand or on the immediate goal, which will unfold the next chapter of the journey. The succeeding discovery may be an outcome of the present voyage. Never wait for the perfect moment to arrive. The expedition of life will not be smooth, in terms of path, conditions, finances, support systems etc. Continue showing up as that action and its reaction will be creating the momentum and sense of fulfillment, which is important.
Embrace the uncertainty and be creative as the final outcome will be the final destination for you. Believe and trust.
Since childhood we have been compared for good. It turned out to be otherwise, is paradoxical. Gradually it forms a consistent habit. The pleasure of victimhood is high in this place of comparing & we don’t want to give it up. Often our circumstances are different and so is our journey and goals. Comparing opens lot of avenues to justify ourselves. Being mindful of own strengths & weakness and positively using the same patiently can lead to growth.
“Before you begin scrambling up the ladder of success, make sure that it is leaning against the right building.”
Clarity of thought is crucial before you begin to work on any task. Write down the reasons to do it and how to do it. If you are unable to do so hire a coach or mentor, to guide you. Thrash out your ideas till you have clearness, have critical discussion with a specialist. Discuss, write.. till the time you are crystal clear about what is expected and the way it has to be done.
Self-discipline is the ability to make yourself do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not.
We most of the time don’t want to leave our comfort zone or actually the ‘Danger zone’ and instead come up with excuses and blame. In reality it’s the courage required to commit to the difficult schedule, doing uncomfortable actions which will definitely take us towards our goal. It requires ‘an iron will’ to be focused & own the responsibility for our actions. It’s the least price the person is paying for moving towards his own dream.