Since childhood we have been compared for good. It turned out to be otherwise, is paradoxical. Gradually it forms a consistent habit. The pleasure of victimhood is high in this place of comparing & we don’t want to give it up. Often our circumstances are different and so is our journey and goals. Comparing opens lot of avenues to justify ourselves. Being mindful of own strengths & weakness and positively using the same patiently can lead to growth.